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Weak, Wavering, and Predatory Men

Weak men are disastrous, wavering men are deceitful, and predatory
men are dangerous. A woman will subconsciously test a man she doesn’t
know to ensure that she won’t end up with such a creature.
On the other hand, a woman in a relationship will also test the man she’s with if she begins to feel threatened that he’s turning into one of these men. If you consider the ramifications for a woman that has devoted her life to one of these types of men you’d have far more sympathy and
understanding for her necessity to test.
A weak man has weak principles, weak morals, and no backbone. If she tests him properly, she’ll realize that he cannot stand up to her and therefore won’t be able to stand up for her. If a man cannot stand up for himself he won’t be able to do so for others. He’ll have a hell of a time
getting what he wants and needs in life because he refuses to assert himself.
A woman simply cannot trust a man like this. Because weak men have difficulty getting their own needs met they won’t be able to meet the needs of those dependent on them. Therefore, getting into a relationship with such a creature would put not only her life in jeopardy, but also that
of her future offspring. High-quality women learn very quickly that the path to future relationship bliss is highly dependent on a man’s ability to stand up for himself.

A wavering man is one who does not know what he wants. He is unsure of himself and unsure of her and often finds himself paralyzed by his indecision and indifference. A woman will test a man to see how much interest he has in her because she instinctively knows that loving her
requires a man’s full devotion. A man who’s only half-hearted about loving her will be easy prey for other women. No woman wants to end up in a loveless relationship. Such a thing is torture for both the man and the woman involved. Testing a man prior to the beginning of a relationship ensures a woman of the man’s level of desire and passion. If he proves himself to be steadfast in his desire and persistent in his passion, it makes it easier for her to let down her guard
and give her heart and more to him. Even during a relationship she will continue to test him to ensure that his resolve to “love her passionately” has not dissipated over time. She may
even test him to stir up the sexual tension that first existed in the beginning of the relationship (something that I discuss later on in the book).
Predatory men pose the greatest threat because unlike the first two types of interested men, these men consciously seek to seduce women with malevolent motives. If she is sound of mind a woman will avoid a predatory man at all costs. She wants no dealing with a man whose only
intentions for her are vile or completely self-serving in nature. The men I refer to are the abusers (physical and emotional), players, cads, rapists, and even potential murderers.
A woman who finds herself being courted by a predatory man has a lot to lose if his seduction is successful. A relationship with such a man may end in humiliation, loss of reputation, abuse, rape, and even death. Although I dislike being so grim and dark, we do live in a world where many women have fallen prey to the unkind and monstrous acts of such men. This is a fate that every woman wants to avoid, hence why testing men for strength and quality of character helps them to put the odds in their favor.

Weak men are disastrous, wavering men are deceitful, and predatory men are dangerous. A woman will subconsciously test a man she doesn’t know to ensure that she won’t end up with such a creature.
On the other hand, a woman in a relationship will also test the man she’s with if she begins to feel threatened that he’s turning into one of these men. If you consider the ramifications for a woman that has devoted her life to one of these types of men you’d have far more sympathy and understanding for her necessity to test.
A weak man has weak principles, weak morals, and no backbone. If she tests him properly, she’ll realize that he cannot stand up to her and therefore won’t be able to stand up for her. If a man cannot stand up for himself he won’t be able to do so for others. He’ll have a hell of a time getting what he wants and needs in life because he refuses to assert himself.
A woman simply cannot trust a man like this. Because weak men have difficulty getting their own needs met they won’t be able to meet the needs of those dependent on them. Therefore, getting into a relationship with such a creature would put not only her life in jeopardy, but also that of her future offspring. High-quality women learn very quickly that the path to future relationship bliss is highly dependent on a man’s ability to stand up for himself.
A wavering man is one who does not know what he wants. He is unsure of himself and unsure of her and often finds himself paralyzed by his indecision and indifference. A woman will test a man to see how much interest he has in her because she instinctively knows that loving her requires a man’s full devotion. A man who’s only half-hearted about loving her will be easy prey for other women. No woman wants to end up in a loveless relationship. Such a thing is torture for both the man and the woman involved. Testing a man prior to the beginning of a relationship ensures a woman of the man’s level of desire and passion. If he proves himself to be steadfast in his desire and persistent in his passion, it makes it easier for her to let down her guard and give her heart and more to him.

Even during a relationship she will continue to test him to ensure that his resolve to “love her passionately” has not dissipated over time. She may even test him to stir up the sexual tension that first existed in the beginning of the relationship (something that I discuss later on in the book).
Predatory men pose the greatest threat because unlike the first two types of interested men, these men consciously seek to seduce women with malevolent motives. If she is sound of mind a woman will avoid a predatory man at all costs. She wants no dealing with a man whose only intentions for her are vile or completely self-serving in nature. The men I refer to are the abusers (physical and emotional), players, cads, rapists, and even potential murderers.
A woman who finds herself being courted by a predatory man has a lot to lose if his seduction is successful. A relationship with such a man may end in humiliation, loss of reputation, abuse, rape, and even death. Although I dislike being so grim and dark, we do live in a world where many women have fallen prey to the unkind and monstrous acts of such men. This is a fate that every woman wants to avoid, hence why testing men for strength and quality of character helps them to put the odds in their favor.

The Games Women Play
A woman may test a man in many different ways to see what she can get away with, what kind of man he is, and how invested he is in her.
Whether you’ve just started dating that super hot coworker or you’ve been married to a wonderful woman for twenty plus years, some if not all of the following situations may seem familiar to you.
Here are a few examples of how you might be tested:
· When your girlfriend blatantly flirts with other men in your presence.
· When your wife seems to feign sexual disinterest to make you work for it.
· When a woman playfully teases you and gives you a hard time.
· When you say or do something she doesn’t like and she storms off expecting you to chase her.
· When she cancels a date or changes plans on you at the last minute without a clear apology or explanation.
· When she expects you to know “what’s wrong” when she’s upset and she gets even more upset when you fail to use your mutant powers of telepathy to figure her out.
· When a woman who’s clearly shown romantic interest in you fails to return your phone calls.
· When she asks loaded, no-win questions like, “Is she more attractive than me?” or “Do I look fat to you?”
· When she pressures you to make a cosmetic or style change because she prefers it. (She nit picks about your grooming and choice of clothes.)
· When she gives you “do this or I’ll leave you” ultimatums in order to get her way.
· When she demands that you complete chores that have already been determined as her responsibility.
· When she insists on putting you in situations that make you extremely uncomfortable.
· When she blames you for her negative feelings, even though you did absolutely nothing to affect her mood.
· When she pouts, whines, complains, or criticizes you when you do something that she doesn’t approve of.
· When she insults or belittles you in social settings.
· When she responds angrily after you disapprove of something she said or did.
· When she habitually nags you to do things her way.
· When she constantly second-guesses your every decision.
· When she acts like a manipulative, spoiled child just to see how much you’ll let her get away with.
· When she requests you to “prove” your love to her when she’s “feeling” unloved and undesirable.
· When she expects you to ask for her permission before you do something you want to do or engage in an activity you want to engage in.
· When you try too hard to make her happy and she shows you

The Games Women Play
A woman may test a man in many different ways to see what she can get away with, what kind of man he is, and how invested he is in her. Whether you’ve just started dating that super hot coworker or you’ve been married to a wonderful woman for twenty plus years, some if not all of the following situations may seem familiar to you.
Here are a few examples of how you might be tested:
· When your girlfriend blatantly flirts with other men in your presence.
· When your wife seems to feign sexual disinterest to make you work for it.
· When a woman playfully teases you and gives you a hard time.
· When you say or do something she doesn’t like and she storms off expecting you to chase her.
· When she cancels a date or changes plans on you at the last minute without a clear apology or explanation.
· When she expects you to know “what’s wrong” when she’s upset and she gets even more upset when you fail to use your mutant powers of telepathy to figure her out.
· When a woman who’s clearly shown romantic interest in you fails to return your phone calls.
· When she asks loaded, no-win questions like, “Is she more attractive than me?” or “Do I look fat to you?”
· When she pressures you to make a cosmetic or style change because she prefers it. (She nit picks about your grooming and choice of clothes.)
· When she gives you “do this or I’ll leave you” ultimatums in order to get her way.
· When she demands that you complete chores that have already been determined as her responsibility.
· When she insists on putting you in situations that make you extremely uncomfortable.
· When she blames you for her negative feelings, even though you did absolutely nothing to affect her mood.
· When she pouts, whines, complains, or criticizes you when you do something that she doesn’t approve of.
· When she insults or belittles you in social settings.
· When she responds angrily after you disapprove of something she said or did.
· When she habitually nags you to do things her way.
· When she constantly second-guesses your every decision.
· When she acts like a manipulative, spoiled child just to see how much you’ll let her get away with.
· When she requests you to “prove” your love to her when she’s “feeling” unloved and undesirable.
· When she expects you to ask for her permission before you do something you want to do or engage in an activity you want to engage in.
· When you try too hard to make her happy and she shows you

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